Hmmm, that's a tuff one... :( I guess I'd try and see: If we're really best friends and fail at being lovers, I guess we'll be clever enough to remain friends anyway and not let sex ruin this friendship... By the way, I'd love to have a "girl buddy" but in mainland China, this kind of friendship isn't common. They make too big a deal of it... It seems that men & women can't be true friends... That sucks!!! :(