The friends and loved ones who have brought me the most meaning in life, have usually not been the easiest to be around. They are not "yesmen". They challenge me to strengthen my integrity/thoughts, push me to grow, drive me to set higher standards for myself. They are my eyes and ears. I shall not (fashionably) mistake that as being unsupportive. If they tell me the truth, only I can decide if it gets turned into gold. In contrast, the ones who just tell you what u want to hear, or even manipulate their responses, have tended to be those who just don't care and may be there for the wrong reasons. Love y'all. Thanks for getting my back. <3