It's sad to see how ugly some people are in the world, but I'm also happy that there are kind souls still and I hope to meet more people like that in life so I am with the same kind ?... I hope the old man is okay tho... I think the message we can learn from this is that you should respect the elderly and put urself in their shoes for once. Not only are they old, frail and needy, they don't deserve to be spoken ill of, or what more, banged from the back when his bones can break due to brittleness of old age. I believe sharing is caring should be another message to take home and don't have to act "gung Ho" informs of your gf, somehow in my heart I'm afraid if that was your parents argueing to your gf, maybe u'd bang your dad and break his bones and argue with him about the sit cuz your Butt maybe occupies 1/2 of the whole table and the other 1/2 for your gf.. even if your butt is that gigantic, have proper mannerism to speak to the elderly, I'm sure years of education in the SG taught u atleast something. Food for thought bro... food for thought...