Sung, let me say first of all that I hope I did not offend you by repeating Jeremy's off-color comment. It was not meant as anything disrespectful to your mother--just a comment on the craziness of the story. Real life is crazier than the movies.... Second, your mother must be a wonderful person. And you are a great storyteller. Your stories are so precious to me. I think I know where this is going..... Many people are like your grandfather...seeking a chance at redemption. Glad you got to spend some time with him and saw the good in him as well as the bad.