one of the best ways to feel lousy is by listening to others. now seriously, why would u wanna do that?i am gonna give u that best advise anyone has ever given u...u see, there are over 6 billion people in the worldand only 1 u.when people are talking bad about u, ignore them.when others say that u aren't any better, ignore them.when family make u think u are any less, ignore them.everyone has an opinion.and they always tend to pour it on u.ignore them.the 1 person who knows u better is U.so never start disbelieving or discounting who u really are.u are The Great U.embrace that.embrace who u are.and all will be Great.