20/20 Helen Fisher

Just finished watching 20/20 and it was about Helen Fisher and her study of human relationships. Helen Fisher is a biological anthropologist and I've always liked since my University years. Her findings and research on romantic love is completely based on science, brain chemistry, hormonal and personality anaylizing.

So after watching her talk about the four different types of romantic love personality, The Explorer (Dopamine), The Negotiator (Estrogen), The Director (Testosterone) and The Builder (Serotonin) it made me wonder what type of romantic love personality do I posses so I decided to take her test and here's the results.

Mancy..., you are a

You are an executive. You are consistent, reliable, thorough and persevering. You can also be socially charming. So you are good at managing others at home and work, in your social circles, and in community projects.

You are efficient too. You have high standards and take your duties seriously, focusing carefully and persistently on your assignments with sensible, concrete, tough-minded thinking and exactitude.

You respect schedules, rules, routines and customs. Appropriate behavior is generally important to you. Yet you have a streak of the independent and innovative thinker. As a result, you have a good balance between conventionality and originality.

You are also a good leader. You are direct, analytical, and skeptical, as well as emotionally contained and clear headed. You acquire the perks of rank more easily than most. And you handle your possessions gracefully. You also enjoy time alone, focusing deeply on your personal interests.

*Traditional *Social *Loyal *Dependable *Patient *Community oriented *Orderly

*Decisive *Focused *Analytical *Logical *Competitive *Self disciplined *Independent

As a Builder, you need a partner who knows his/her own mind and earnestly wants to help you establish a stable family life, cultivate a network of friends and build career and financial stability. You are good natured and willing to do thankless jobs for friends and family. And you gravitate to people who are honest and respectful of traditions. You particularly admire people who are socially conscious, and who participate in community-based organizations--for both charitable and social reasons. Foremost, you need a partner who is devoted to family, sensible with money, responsible with possessions, compassionate, and wants to have detailed and informed conversations.

You like people and are generally comfortable with them. Family is important to you and you are very protective of those you love. Yet you are skeptical of people who are impulsive and impatient with those who don't "get to the point" in conversations. You like concrete and focused conversations on everything from trivia to the important topics of the day.

*Your need to be realistic and cautious can keep you from trying new things. *You can be overly critical of others. *You can become so focused on your work or interests that you can inadvertently exclude those who love you.

You tend to naturally gravitate to the BUILDER/negotiators .

trustworthy

caring

respect

honesty

trust

Family

values

loving

loyal

moral/morals

ambition/ambitious

real

geek

debate

challenge/challenging

politics

nerd/nerdy

intellectual

intelligent/intelligence

driven

 

Here's the link if you want to take the test too: http://www.chemistry.com/whyhimwhyher/?trackingid=2000126&bannerid=2014032