A LESSON learnt from ” WEEKEND in NEW ENGLAND “. NOW it seems YEARS …..

LOVE MAKES THE WORLD GOES ROUND

or …..

LOVE IS A MERRY-GO-ROUND?

Whatever the case, when there’s LOVE , there’s bound to be  PAIN.

“Only love can break a heart.  And only love can mend it again,” consoled  GENE PITNEY .

LOVE in its truest form will heal all wounds, and create an idyllic life.

Yet sadly, few humans know how to channel the true nature of love.

Love sets no condition nor possessiveness.

The ending of a love so true can cause enormous upsets, feelings of betrayal, rejection and anger.

When two people come together together in LOVE , the aura, the energy fields begin to bond.

The longer they stay in love, the stronger the bond is.

But when one initiates to break the trust, move out of the relationship, separate the energy forces, the emotional wound is left in the aura of the other one who wants to carry on.

Break-ups take time to heal.

You’ll have to saddle pain, resentment and angst,

HEALING requires inward focus rather than outward force.

It means you have to think forward rather than to dwell on the past.

HEALING also requires knowing HOW to experience and accept the reality of the person who has departed.

Not the idealistic fantasy of how you wanted the person to be.

LOVE IS OVER?

YES , but life goes on.

What price LOVE?

Lots, but like any rollercoaster ride, the experience is bumpy.

But we all want love, we seek love and we’ll go on that “thrill-and-spin” ride all over again.

That’s the joy and despair of living LIFE.

William Shakespeare advised us that

” THE PATH OF TRUE LOVE NEVER DID RUN SMOOTH. “

Nothing is further away from the truth.

Listen to the strains of BARRY MANILOW ’s famous hit WEEKEND IN NEW ENGLAND:

” ….  memories no one can take away

**the pain that i feel each and everyday

and it is going to be hard ,but i will pull myself through

a real time that a get over loving you**

**Last night, I waved goodbye

Now it seems years

I’m back in the city, where nothin’ is clear

But thoughts of me, holdin’ you, bringin’ us near**

**And tell me

When will our eyes meet

When can I touch you?

When will this strong yearnin’ end?

And when will I hold you again?**

**Time in New England took me away

Long rocky beaches and you by the bay

We started a story whose end must now wait**

**And tell me

When will our eyes meet

When can I touch you?

When will this strong yearnin’ end?

And when will I hold you again?**

**I feel the change comin’

I feel the wind blow

I feel brave and daring

I feel my blood flow, oh**

**With you I could bring out all the love that I have

With you there’s a heaven, so earth ain’t so bad again…**

**And tell me

When will our eyes meet

When can I touch you?

When will this strong yearnin’ end?

And when will I hold you again?**

Thus a lesson learnt from “WEEKEND IN NEW ENGLAND”.

TIME will soon heal all hurts …

One day, when you look back fondly, IT MAY SEEMS YEARS.