OK. So I haven't been on here in like forever, and that's annoying and I'm sorry, but I'll try to update everyone (who cares) on my blog later.

As for what is annoying me...
There's this guy I know, and he is such an a-hole. I don't even know him very well... and maybe if I got to know him better, I would like him... but it's much more likely that I would just hate him all the more.
But what's annoying me about him today is the way he talks to people who he considers "cool" or girls he considers pretty. He kisses up so extremely, that it's disgusting to be around.
The other thing he does is act "holier-than-thou" to people who (according to him) aren't "cool" or girls who aren't pretty. Not only does he make snide remarks, and disparage people and ridicule anything he can about them, he also takes pride in doing so. He's rude and obnoxious to those he considers beneath him.
Now, I know a lot of people do these things, and it's usually one or the other, but to do both is just so intolerable, I can't handle it.
Fortunately for me, I don't have anything to do with him. I met him once, and couldn't STAND him. And while it's not always right to make snap judgements, the more I hear about him, the more I think my first impression was the right one. I have come upon multiple people who feel the same way that I do, and thus have nothing to do with him. But there are a few people I know that have to deal with him and as he considers them beneath him, he has a tendency to make snide little sarcastic remarks to them just to aggravate and annoy.
And it annoys me I think even more than the people I know. They just have learned to tune it out and ignore it. But it pains me to stand by and watch people get beaten down just because they are used to it. And in some ways it annoys me that they have become used to it. Since when is it ok for us to get used to bullies, and jerks, etc?
If you see someone being a jerk on numerous occasions, why don't you stand up and say, "Dude, that's not cool. Grow up." Or stop making excuses for them and stop being friends with them.
Where do you draw the line? I mean, if someone was killing people, would you stand by and say, "it's just what they do." or if they were shoplifting, would you say, "it's who she is, there's nothing you can do about it. I guess I'll just pay more to cover the store's losses." I mean, yeah, these examples are a bit extreme... but where is that invisible line?
Obviously, you won't stand by and watch mass murder... but some people will stand by and watch spousal abuse. Some won't. Some will stand by and watch a bigger kid pick on a smaller kid.
Is physical abuse different than emotional abuse? It annoys me!
*sigh* That's my rant. Sorry.
~Cyn...
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